tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post518825520694914808..comments2023-08-15T11:03:58.591-04:00Comments on Adventures in Sparkland: The Big Split - UpdateSparkling Redhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12799366562472325812noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-66488053206116513822008-08-12T15:02:00.000-04:002008-08-12T15:02:00.000-04:00i can help you w/that bonfire. as "nice" as your ...i can help you w/that bonfire. as "nice" as your stepfather may be, it's wrong to leave all his stuff at your mom's as a storage facility. she needs to be able to move on just as he has.Jameilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242625946552047911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-36912726444499759312008-08-06T12:17:00.000-04:002008-08-06T12:17:00.000-04:00Tink: Yup, they're being pretty civilized about i...Tink: Yup, they're being pretty civilized about it. I'm grateful for that.<BR/><BR/>Nicole: I've left it totally up to my mom. I think there's a way in which she's not ready to pack up all his stuff just yet. I hope she'll feel ready soon.Sparkling Redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12799366562472325812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-27879575172386146212008-08-06T01:39:00.000-04:002008-08-06T01:39:00.000-04:00Mh - maybe at least packing it into boxes and stor...Mh - maybe at least packing it into boxes and store it somewhere in the house?<BR/>You could even ask him if that's ok with him.<BR/>Too bad it's all dragging on and on....men.....(some men...)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-48879230526415681242008-08-05T19:04:00.000-04:002008-08-05T19:04:00.000-04:00Ugh. Divorces suck. But it sounds like this one is...Ugh. Divorces suck. But it sounds like this one is going smoother than most. I'll cross my fingers it stays that way.Tinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16188363142469404823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-76487142278925239722008-08-05T14:05:00.000-04:002008-08-05T14:05:00.000-04:00Claire: It could be worse... but there's definite...Claire: It could be worse... but there's definite room for improvement.<BR/><BR/>Ron: I can also identify with my mother. Especially since my step-dad already threw her the world's biggest possible curve ball - why on earth should she trust him now?<BR/><BR/>Aurora: When his stuff is finally out of the house, she'll have to throw a party to celebrate.<BR/><BR/>Nilsa: You're right on all counts. I expect she'll call on me to help her pack it all up. That's going to be weird.Sparkling Redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12799366562472325812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-27391022304840239122008-08-05T12:09:00.000-04:002008-08-05T12:09:00.000-04:00I can see why she's hesitant right now. But, once ...I can see why she's hesitant right now. But, once those papers are final? She's no longer responsible for him. And it might be a liability to her to keep his stuff (what happens if a fire breaks out in her home - will she have to make a claim for his stuff on her insurance). Not to mention the peace of mind she deserves to have that stuff gone. Hopefully he will come get it. Otherwise, it needs to go to storage. It's his problem, not hers.Nilsa S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11960351638623857751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-38799629844530964902008-08-05T11:10:00.000-04:002008-08-05T11:10:00.000-04:00Disco Inferno!Disco Inferno!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-86549542008819883832008-08-05T10:42:00.000-04:002008-08-05T10:42:00.000-04:0027 years of accumulated life debris is a lot to li...27 years of accumulated life debris is a lot to live with when someone has just dumped you. It's too bad she still has to tiptoe around him, literally and figuratively.Emma Gorst https://www.blogger.com/profile/09692637018538270794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-87454286043286127192008-08-04T22:32:00.000-04:002008-08-04T22:32:00.000-04:00I identify with your mother. I need to see things ...I identify with your mother. I need to see things in writing and understand exactly where I stand. To have things just in Limbo would make it difficult for me to sleep. And trust me the day after everything was signed and dated his stuff would be out and in storage.Warped Mind of Ronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15670039992710968421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5620546355443994788.post-79166106775897528212008-08-04T19:02:00.000-04:002008-08-04T19:02:00.000-04:00Oh my. Sounds like trying times, sweetheart.CxxOh my. Sounds like trying times, sweetheart.<BR/><BR/>CxxClairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15681193035888306703noreply@blogger.com